Despite that experience, I'm still open to believing that's not always the case. I once dated someone with many guy friends and she certainly was trouble. I just can't seem to get past the first date lately!ДЄnyway, back to you: as you said, yes, having many guy friends can be very off-putting: not necessarily because it's 'not feminine,' but rather because it's because it's widely believed it spells trouble. I'm constantly getting friendzoned too, and it sucks! But I know my appearance isn't (always) the reason because I've managed to at least get first dates despite being a fatty. And trust me, it's not that 'you're too interesting' So either try lowering your physical standards or try to find the reason guys don't think you're dating material. You talk about high maintenance but honestly the kind of girls who don't get along with other girls are as high maintenance as they come.Д®ither way the brutally honest answer to this is that either you're trying to bat out of your league when it comes to looks, or there's just something about your personality that guys see as such a big red flag they think you're not dating material. 'your typical basic type girl who hasn't got anything interesting to say just because that's what guys like'Дo you genuinely think that guys want girls with no personalities who have nothing interesting to say? Or is that just how you see the girls these guys end up dating cause you're bitter about being friendzoned?ДЄnd yea having a lot of male friends, especially if your friends are mostly male with very few girls is a pretty big red flag. I found it easiest to meet guys I was into, and who were into me, when I stopped trying, and I just relaxed. I guess what I'm saying is that you may be looking in the wrong places, or you may be looking too hard. One little date turned into spending the entire day together, and we were pretty much inseparable after that. He hawt.) After a while, we got pretty flirty, and we set up a date. We became friends first (though I wanted to do him as soon as I met him. We'd date a while, but it would fizzle out eventually. So I kept making friends with people, and occasionally, I became friends with a guy, and there was a spark.

If they're not interested, they're not interested. I then realised it was because I was trying so hard to get them to see me as more than a friend. I was always friends with guys, but they weren't ever really interested in me. Never been super into being girly, though I do love doing my makeup (lipstick is my one true love), and I present myself well.

I have always been into video games, motorbikes, science, computers, etc. I will be honest, I was pretty much you at 20. No offence, fellas, but most 20 year old boys are still immature as hell (I am aware there are always exceptions, but this is a pretty good rule). Quick question: Are the guys you're referring to your age? As in, 20? Because 20 year old guys almost NEVER know what they want, and tbh, you probably don't want to date a 20 year old guy.

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